About Schmidt

a . One of the major losses seen in the film is Warren s loss of his wife Helen . There also came a point where Warren learned that his wife had an social occasion with his best friend . This added up to the grief that he was already bearing . This caused him to think that he was a very inadequate husband and had thought over his shortcomings as a husband . During the time that he was pondering over the matter , it is very translucent that lingered on memories and at the same time experiences distress over his lady friend s impending marriage.He exhibited Rando s Six R Processes -there is the recognition of the loss , experiencing divers(prenominal) emotions ,reviewing his life when his wife was still alive , seeking for forgiveness , and adjusting to the situation . In the long run , he forgives his wife for engaging in the affair and at the same time asks for forgiveness for letting her down . b . As a means of coping , he preoccupied himself with urging his daughter not to marr y.He also released tension and distress through his letters for the Tanzanian boy . This together with continuous realization of his life became his coping mechanism . It should be noted that there was a point wherein he think that when he dies and everyone he knows dies it will appear as if he didn t exist . nevertheless in the end , he is overwhelmed by what he learned that the Tanzanian boy actually benefited from him and that